I loved him and was legitimately concerned. I encouraged him to get bloodwork done, thinking maybe it was a decline in testosterone or something. I have gently initiated conversations about how to spice it up-sexy dates, sex toys, new positions, even non-monogamy-but Rick never took me up on any of my suggestions. Our sex went from passionate, fun, and frequent early in the relationship to nearly nonexistent now. Let’s call him “Rick.” We’ve been together for five years and engaged for two.
I am a 37-year-old heterosexual woman in a monogamous relationship with a het cis male.
